In this powerful and personal essay, trauma therapist Philippa shares her experience of witnessing her neurodivergent daughter's silent struggle in a medical setting. She unveils the pervasive myth of "Absence of No Is Not Yes" in maternity care, highlighting the importance of affirmative consent and the need to honour individual communication styles. Through her own story and expertise, Philippa calls for a transformation in how we approach childbirth, empowering women to advocate for themselves and find healing through specialised therapy.

Did you know that obstetric violence is a form of gender-based violence that affects many women during pregnancy and childbirth? It can have long-term physical and emotional consequences. If you have experienced obstetric violence, know that you are not alone and help is available. Reach out to us at Fantastic Futures which offers perinatal services and support for women who have experienced trauma. Educate yourself and others about this issue to raise awareness and demand better care for all birthing people.