Hey Couples, Let's Chat Parenting!
The most frequent time to divorce is within 18 months after the birth of a baby. Alright, first things first, being married? It's a bit like surfing. Epic waves, unexpected wipeouts, and the constant balance game. And lately, Aussie couples have been riding some pretty big waves. I mean, in 2021, we saw the divorce rate jump up. And the numbers? Oof, it's the highest since the groovy '70s! So, what's shaking the surfboard for many? One biggie: the wild ride of parenting.
Now, don't get me wrong. Parenting? It’s like catching the best wave – exhilarating, rewarding, but mate, it's also bloody challenging! And like any team sport, both partners gotta be in the game, cheering each other on, so no one feels like they're sinking.
Let’s Get Chatty!
Communication, mates. It's like sunscreen – you've gotta have it! Talk about everything - from how you both wanna tackle the tantrums to those 3 am feedings. Keeping things open helps avoid those 'uh-oh' moments.
Who’s On What? But... Go With The Flow
Divvy up the duties, you know? Maybe you’re the breakfast champ, and your partner’s the bedtime storyteller. But hey, life throws curveballs (or rogue waves). So, while you've got your zones, be ready to switch it up when needed.
Don’t Forget ‘Us’ Time
Amidst the nappies and nursery rhymes, remember you two started this journey together. Sneak in those date nights, binge a series or just have a good ol' chat – keep that spark alive!
Lean On Your Mates
It's okay to tap out sometimes. Call in the grandparents for babysitting duty, chat with friends, or join a parents' group. A fresh take can sometimes make all the difference.
Reach out for support if either of you are struggling! A good perinatal therapist can help you navigate this time.
Cheers to Every Little Win!
Parenting is wild, and every day is a new adventure. So, when you nail it (even if it's just a peaceful car ride), give each other a high-five. Celebrate the journey!
Look, sharing the parenting game is all about teamwork. With some good chats, flexibility, and loads of love, you won’t just get through it – you'll rock it! So, let's ride this wave together and enjoy the beautiful chaos of raising little Aussies.